Say Hello, to Mr. Muscles

I recently met a guy. Well Not just  a n y  guy. A super different type of guy.

Now before you guys (Jersey Girl) get all freakin bent out of shape, there is nothing for you to worry about.  You are a great friend. Thank you for looking out for me.
BUT

Me and this "guy" have just been chatting.

I am very intrigued by him.

I met him on FB (please hold it down, I hear your concern) "Mr. Muscles"  added me as a friend on FB.

And

I accepted, which I don’t normally do with people I don’t know.

But

In my defense, we have like a million of the same friends;

We went to the same High School;

And

He knew my younger sister.

However, in the back of my mind I do wonder why he picked ME?

For the same reasons I just listed?

Or

was it because he saw my profile picture?

Hmmmmmmmm, that is the BIG question of the day. 
Would he have still picked me if I had a different photo up?
I'm sure eventually I will get to the bottom of it.

So back to what I was gonna say before I had to give everyone the 411 as to why I added someone I didn’t even know, into my “personal” space.

So, Mr. Muscles and I have been chit chatting.

He is a very interesting individual.
What I really like is, He listens to what I have to say, with interest, he always has time to talk to me, he puts the effort into contacting me, unlike someone else I know.
and I have to add that,

He is also ohhhhhhh soooo very freakin sexy H O T.

WTF, I can have eye candy just like everyone else. HA

No, I’m sorry that’s mean. Hes not eye candy, there’s more to him than just a pretty face. wink wink

Besides, I always enjoy a stimulating conversation. I like to be challanged during the day.

 or life just gets too damn boring.

Now I know what you’re thinking, and not just you Jersey Girl. I know there are others out there too that are thinking the same thing.

I just finally ended the deal with " MR. Big" (and because of the circumstances it has made me a little sad) So that I could focus on my marriage.

I get it, I  am supposed to be working on my marriage with the sportsman.

Hello, I have been trying. I have been doing my part. Honest!

I know you think that since I’m talking to "Mr. Muscles" and

 cause hes freakin HOTTER than hell,

that I am going to get myself into t r o u b l e.
I can promise you that is not whats going on here.

I’m not sure what it is about me, that men find so interesting. I don't look for them. They just find me.
A good friend of mine recently mentioned something about me sending out pheromones or something. I don’t believe in that kinda crap.

But for whatever reason I have never had a difficult time meeting or talking to men.

So back to what I was sayin.

First of all people please give me some credit, I am a big girl, I am fully aware of what I am doing.

 Which currently is NOTHING but having an intelligent conversation with someone very interesting. Who pays attention to what I have to say.

Nothing wrong with that.

I’m not writing about "him" here today, cause I feel guilty or feel the need to explain.

I’m writing cause he was on my mind this morning and I wanted to share with you, as I do everyday about what is going on in my life.

Good, bad, and the ugly.

So you’re more than welcome to give me your feed back.

Since I know, you will anyways.

With or without my permission.

So come on

give

it

to

 me.