Talking out my Ass- Moment

Recently the sportsman and I had a sit down, where we really talked, not the kinda stuff we talked about when we were in Omaha(rip your heart out sad kinda shit), but on a different level. More of a up beat kinda of convo.


 Finally, after 9 years of marriage the man is interested in knowing more “informational” kinda crap about me. When previously he never asked or said anything about
a n y t h I n g. I am sure I have mentioned before he is a very passive kinda person. (nothing wrong with that)


Now he wants to know ALL. I have to say that it’s a little more than strange for me.


So one of the many things he has been asking about is my blog, and do I bash him on here.


Hmmmmm, well that is a hard one to answer. I asked the sportsman if he really wanted me to answer that truthfully. Since I am the queen of brutal. I wanted to make sure he knew that he might not like my answer.


The sportsman also has asked me some strange questions like, if a guy said or did something inappropriate would I tell him.


That’s also a hmmmmmmmmmmmmm, moment. So I asked him what kind of innapropriate are we talking about?


Are we talking dick photos? Are we talking porno videos? Are we talking sexual propositions?


Cause most things don’t bother me that would bother the average person. So what one might think is unacceptable, might not offend me.


And to be honest I get that kinda shit weekly.


I am a pretty laid back type of person, about almost all things. It takes a lot for me to get all worked up over something. (However, God help you if that happens)


So as all this “stuff” is coming out, I see the wheels turning in the sportsmans head. The scary part is I really don’t know what he is thinking about all this new found information I have just shared with him.


Should I be concerned? Or happy that he finally really wants to live in the REAL world with me.


So I thought about a lot of the other blogs I read, where they have their spouses “Guest Post” sometimes. Now let me remind you that the sportsman has NEVER read my blog.


So I asked the sportsman if he wanted to guest post. He wasn’t sure what to say about that. I even told him ” IF” I let him write something, that he could write about whatever he wanted.


Sooooooo here we are. Should I let the sportsman write something for my blog? Maybe?


If I let the sportsman write something does this mean I have to let him read my blog?


Am I ready for the sportsman to read my blog? I have put down a lot of pretty deep shit here.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Let me think. Well the conclusion I have come too on this is

HELL NO!

Maybe later, but I feel as if things are still a little too freakin raw right now. I think allowing the sportsman to read my shit will just make matters worse.


However, I am not completely closed to the idea, just maybe further down the line in the future.

What do you think? Honest opinions here.

Neck Tattoos - Are They Sexy?

The art of Neck Tattoos, is it really considered to look sexy? The neck, or the nape of the neck is known to be a sensual part of the body, therefore tattoos placed in this location will certainly look sexy. Neck tattoos were originally reserved for men but now there are more and more women indulging in this form of body art, and they look sensational. MY opinion is that the quality of the artwork, type of design and the location would determine whether it looks sexy or not.

Men often have tattoos done on the side or front of the neck, where as women tend to place them on the nape or back of the neck. Bold masculine designs such as a scull, tribal art, a cross, animals and snakes are forms of tattoos that men tend to prefer, but even a flower such as a rose on the side of the neck have the effects of being masculine when done by a good tattooist.

Depending on the individual, women tend to have beautiful delicate designs tattooed to the back or nape of the neck. The choice of tattoo design preferred for the neck area of a woman are small delicate images. Designs such as zodiac symbols, stars, flowers, butterflies, music related notes, a cross and other miniature symbols look cool and sexy when inked to the nape.

In general, back of neck tattoos are popular as it is an area that can easily be concealed when desired. Due to the fact that certain employees do not allow tattoos to be noticeable at the workplace, one can cover the neck tattoo by wearing collard shirts, turtle neck tops or hiding it under the hair. Back of neck tattoos are usually a starting point or a beginning of a cool back tattoo design.

Select the best design that is suitable to your theme or personality. For obvious reasons, it is not advisable to have the names of loved ones permanently etched to any part of your body. Consider a design or symbol that represents the idea or feeling you want to evoke, all that limits you is your imagination. Finding sexy neck tattoos is exciting and less stressful with the large database of designs on line that you can browse through at your convenience. Make the right choice, find the database with the best designs suitable for you and get inked!

I've Been Replaced

Don’t you just hate that feeling of being replaced?



Or the thought of who or what you are being replaced by.


You know just when it has happens.


It’s not just shit you make up in your freakin head.


It IS most definitely for r e a l.


It’s soooooo not a pleasant thing.


You try not to dwell on it.


To know that you’re not as important as you once were.


Less requests to converse.
Fewer to none existent texts.
Less of a need to be seen.
Fewer moments alone.
Less contact


Then it is all gone, in a blink of an eye, as if there was never really anything there to begin with.
Then your left with just pure saddness.
You act as if you didn’t see it coming.
But
You most definitely saw it fucking coming.
You just chose to ignore it.
You just wanted to live in the happy moments.
Untill there was no longer any of those fucking moments left.

All you are left with are the memories.

New Illustration - Dog Walking

Here is a new piece I did for a client recently. Yes, that dog is wearing high heels. Hey, it was a first for me too.

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Tattoo Designs - Celtic Strength Tattoos

People of strength

The Celts were warriors, feared for their fighting skills and ruthlessness. They were a tall, muscular people who dyed their hair blond and painted their faces blue and appeared naked in battle. They stuck the severed heads of their defeated foes over the outside of the doorways of their houses. They were said to go to battle for the love of it, which made them sought after as mercenaries. The Romans and the Greeks called them barbarians. They were a tough, strong people.

Yet, with all this, they were also known for their chivalry and their courage. They built a reputation as fierce warriors but, at the same time, they were artists, poets and musicians. They were skilled artisans as seen in their metal and artwork. They developed an intricate knot work form of art that is uniquely theirs. Wearing a Celtic tattoo connects you to this unique heritage.

Your strength tattoo


Wearing a Celtic knot work tattoo can be a symbol of strength. It can be a strong declaration to the world that you are proud of your Celtic or your Christian heritage - a symbol from which you can take strength. It can simply be that you gain strength by connecting to a people with a history of bold deeds, great accomplishments and a rich mythology.

Where would you find your strength? Maybe you strength comes from nature or one of its creatures. Then your tattoo can have your favourite animal image interwoven in the knot work or, if are more drawn to the Celtic Otherworld, you may choose a mythical creature from their folklore. The cross and circle found in the Celtic cross predate Christianity and have their roots in nature worship - the sun, the moon. Maybe you can gain strength from wearing those ancient symbols and thus connecting to the Universe.

Knot work designs alone can be strength tattoos but Celtic tribal tattoos can be even more dramatic. They work well as armbands or larger back drawings. You have a great deal of choice, as there is a vast array of designs developed over many years. With a little research you should be able to find your Celtic strength tattoo.

One of a Kind

There are times in your life that you come across things that are

“One of a kinds”.

It could be a relationship. It could be a breath taking view. It could be an automobile. It could be a feeling about something or someone.

Whatever it is, it is hard to ever forget or want to leave that moment.


Some people would say that it’s better to have encountered this, at least once in your life vs to have never had the opportunity at all.

I am somewhat conflicted in my opinion on this.

It’s all good if you get to keep this “One of a kind”.

How freakin awesome is that?

But

If it is something that is a once in a life time thing, and then, all you have left are your memories. Not the real thing.

Well now, I don’t see how that’s better.

It’s better to be tortured by never getting it again? Left with only memories and photos?

If you never had it then you would never know what you were missing.

Sometimes I struggle with experiecing things vs staying inside my protective box.

Funny since I always push the sportsman to come outside of his box.

But isn’t that most everyone? It’s easier to stay within your comfort level.

I suppose it depends on the risk envolved and if it is worth taking it or not.

Am I just rambling now?

Honestly, I am not really sure where I was going with this.


Other than I have come across MY “One of Kind” and I will enjoy it until my time is up.

No Regrets.

So whats your thought on embracing,

“One of kinds”?